Wednesday, February 18, 2026

Composed of Contradictions: Ben Wade in "3:10 to Yuma" (1957)

Patient. Conniving. Gentlemanly. Calculating. Charming. Deceitful. Truthful. Selfish. Efficient. Ruthless. Gentle. Ben Wade (Glenn Ford) in the original 1957 version of 3:10 to Yuma is all of those, and more. 

Ben Wade is such an enigmatic character. He has so many facets and layers. Other villains might have three or four of the attributes I listed for him, and we’d think of them as perfectly acceptable villains. But every time I watch this film, I see new things I hadn’t noticed. I hear a line of dialog in a new light. 


The whole film is breathtakingly taut. Ben Wade is the ratchet at its center, turning up the tension a little more every minute he’s on screen. All the while, he lets us get a peek at some small corner of his complicated character to keep us fascinated, keep us sympathetic. It’s a spectacular performance by Glenn Ford, but quiet and understated, never showy or attention-seeking. That’s why Ben Wade one of the very few villains I’m willing to connect with the word “favorite.” 

Ben Wade is a businessman. He’s efficient, careful, controlled. He’d be an excellent banker or CEO of a corporation. But the business he’s chosen is robbery. When we first see him, he’s led his gang of outlaws to a stagecoach carrying gold. Wade hangs back, letting his men follow his orders and his plan. The only time he gets involved is when one of his own men makes a mistake. He gets too close to the stagecoach driver, who grabs his gun and holds the outlaw hostage, saying if they don’t stop the robbery and let the stage and its gold go, he’ll shoot this outlaw. 

Ben Wade saves him the trouble. He shoots his own gang member, and then the driver. Wade isn’t angry or upset about this; he’s crisp and careful. Ruthless, yes, but impersonally so. Before and after this shooting, he is courteous to the stage’s passengers and to the farmer and two boys who witnessed the robbery and shooting. He doesn’t kill witnesses to hide his lawless dealings; he doesn’t threaten them, he lets them go as long as they don’t interfere with his plans. 


By the time his first scene is over, the audience thinks they have a clear sense of who and what Ben Wade is: cold, calculating, deadly. Then, he turns all that on its head. The next ten minutes he’s on screen, he’s flirty, romantic, and charming. He and his men celebrate their successful robbery with a drink or two at a middle-of-nowhere saloon. Sparks fly between him and Emmy, the woman tending bar. In fact, they find each other so mutually entrancing that Wade stays behind when his gang scatters to avoid a posse. His scenes with Emmy are sweet, soft, and gentle. This outlaw is a lot more complicated than we expect. 

Ben Wade spends the bulk of the film in handcuffs, waiting to get shipped off on the train to the penitentiary in Yuma, Arizona. He also spends it manipulating everyone he comes into contact with, poking and prodding at them with his words to see if he can find the right opening that will set him free. That same farmer who witnessed the robbery, Dan Evans (Van Heflin), ends up outwitting and helping to capture Wade. They match wits, Wade trying to see if his cunning will outweigh Evans’s conviction that Wade needs to pay for his crimes. They’re both desperate men. Wade to get free, and Evans to earn the reward money promised him for delivering Wade to the train. Evans’s ranch is failing. He needs to stay alive and get that money if he’s going to provide for his wife and sons. 

Wade does everything in his power to convince Evans he’ll die a failure if he tries to get Wade to the train. Wade’s gang has rallied around their leader. He’s sure they’ll gun Evans down and free him as soon as they can. He’d rather bribe Evans to let him go. That’s easier. More civilized. A win-win for them both. Trouble is, Evans can’t be bought. He’s too stubborn and too honorable. That causes Wade to acquire something unexpected: respect for Evans. Sure, Wade is more cunning, more clever, and more successful than Evans. But he can’t sway this upright farmer. And, despite himself, he even envies Evans his convictions, his wife and family, his honor. 

Early in the film, when Wade is first in custody, he tells Evans’s wife, “I hope I can send him back to you all right.” He’s half sincere when he says it, and half pushing buttons to see what it’ll do to Evans. But by the time that train leaves the station at 3:10, he’s made good on that promise, despite himself. Wade and Evans, opposites, enemies, and opponents, have discovered they can respect and trust each other against both their better judgements. The only reason that’s believable for the audience is that Ben Wade has shown us, slowly and gradually just what a jumble of contradictions he really is. 

Aren’t we all?


(This post originally appeared in Femnista magazine on October 29, 2021.)

(If you want to read my full review of 3:10 to Yuma, you will find it right here.)

Saturday, February 14, 2026

Giveaway Winners + Wrap-up for We Love Fairy Tales Week


Once upon a time This afternoon, I assigned all eligible* giveaway entries a number, then had a random number generator pick numbers and matched those winners up with prizes in the order they were picked.  Those winners are:

Prize One: A Noble Companion gift set -- Jordynne H.

Prize Two:  Jack the Giant Slayer (2013) -- Allison T.

Prize Three: four classic fairy tales bookmarks -- Cecilia

Prize Four:  four princessy fairy tale bookmarks -- Sara R

Prize Five: five stickers depicting castles and dragons -- Crystan

Prize Six: five stickers depicting cottage-core fairy tale elements -- Jennifer S.

Prize Seven: five stickers depicting underwater fantasy scenes  -- Katja L.


Congratulations, friends new and old!  I'll be emailing you at the email addresses you provided to find out where to send your prizes :-)

*some people did not abide by the rules, which stated that entrants must provide an email address, and must provide prize choices, or else they would not be eligible for prizes.  Oops.


I hope you have had a merry week celebrating fairy tales with me, whether you won a prize or not!  I know I'm woefully behind on answering comments, and I hope to catch up on those this weekend.  I also hope to finish reading all the fun posts everyone contributed this week!  If you also need to catch up, or if you have last-minute contributions, here's that list widget again to make life easier for you :-)


I hope your ever afters are happy ones :-)  See you at the next party!

Friday, February 13, 2026

My Tag Answers for We Love Fairy Tales Week


I mean, I should answer them, since I'm the party host, eh?

I hope you've all been having a jolly time this week!  Today is your last day to enter my giveaway -- I'll choose and announce the winners tomorrow!  Might be late in the day, as I have a pretty full Saturday lined up.

Okay, here we go.

1.  What's your favorite fairy tale?  The Twelve Dancing Princesses!  And has been since I was a small child, reading a children's book version with amazing artwork.  I love that the hero solves the mystery using cleverness, not strength or magic.  Well, not much magic -- he does have an invisibility cloak.  But that just makes things a bit easier.  I think he could have solved it eventually without that.

(from my Instagram account)


2.  If you could cast any actors and actresses ever in a movie version of that fairy tale, who would you pick?  Hmm.  What about Jude Law as the retired soldier returning home from the war, Samuel L. Jackson as the king, Letitia Wright as the youngest sister, and Tessa Thompson as the oldest sister.  And the soldier falls for the oldest sister, not the youngest.



3.  Do you have a favorite fairy tale movie?  The Princess Bride (1987) -- no contest!  True, it's kind of a spoof of fairy tales, but I still think it counts.


4.  Do you have a favorite book that retells a fairy tale?  I really love the novella Falling Snow by Skye Hoffert, which is included in the Five Magic Spindles anthology.



5.  If you got to be in a stage or film production of a classic fairy tale, what fairy tale would you want to be in, and who would you like to play?  I would love to play the fairy godmother in a version of Cinderella set in either the Old West or the 1940s.


6.  Do you like fairy tales by Hans Christian Andersen or the Grimm Brothers best?  Or someone else's?  I like lots of fairy tales, including some by both of them, some from the Arabian Nights, and others, too!  I don't have a clear favorite source.



7.  What more obscure fairy tale do you think more people should know about?  I'm really fond of The Boy Who Learned to Shudder, also known as The Story of the Youth Who Went Forth to Learn What Fear Was.  It's a sweet one.


There we have it!  Do we have any answers in common?  Don't forget to check out everyone's contributions via the main list in this post :-)  I'm behind on that myself, but hope to catch up this weekend!

Thursday, February 12, 2026

What Ten Years of Alan Ladd Will Do to Your House

Today is my tenth Alan-iversary!  TENTH!!!!  Wow.

When you have been obsessing over the same actor for ten years, you tend to end up with a lot of stuff about them, all over your house.  At least, that's how it works if you're me :-D  One of these days, I'll do a post with all my John Wayne artwork and signs and posters too.  But today, it's Alan Ladd Day.  I'll give you a bit of a tour of where he shows up in my house.

You can kind of see these posters when you first come in the front door, if you know to look up the staircase to the hallway wall upstairs.  Guy Williams as Zorro, John Wayne on a horse, and Alan Ladd smiling at someone just off-screen.  Oddly enough, all three guys in these posters seem to be looking at something over by my laundry room.  Hmm.


Sorry about how glare-y these photos are.  I snapped them quickly today, and it was pretty sunny.

In our master bedroom, I have a wall that has a couple of half-sized bookcases that contain my unread books (or try to, anyway), and I have a gallery wall above that.  Five of the 11 pictures on it are Alan.  I'll share some closeups down below.


Actually, it's seven out of thirteen, because I have a smaller photo stuck into the frame of each of the bigger photos.  My best friend send me this swoony shot of a very young Alan Ladd.  The smaller photo is just a postcard I bought on RedBubble.


This is a really bad photo because of the reflection -- so sorry!  This is my favorite photo of Alan -- he's smiling his genuine smile in it, not his "I'm supposed to smile now" smile.  I bought it on eBay, and it's a vintage print of a promo photo.  The insert is a little photo of Alan with a horse that I think Eva-Joy sent me a while back.


This is a trio of postcards that were sent to Alan's fan club members at various stages in his career.  They're not actually signed, they just have his signature printed on them, but they ARE authentic fan club cards, so that's pretty cool.


Along another wall in our bedroom, I have a small table that's a combination sewing and writing table.  I have a few photos hung there, and for about ten years, I've been sticking postcards and inspirational writing quotations and such all around those photos.  Kind of an inspiration board for all my writing in general.


It includes a trio of postcards there that I also got from RedBubble when I was writing my first draft of my Hamlet retelling, which I haven't published yet, but do hope to revise and release eventually.  Anyway, I have Joseph Cotten, Alan Ladd, and Victoria Lake all done by the same artist because they're my Horatio, Hamlet, and Ophelia.  It's set in the 1940s, and these are based on their looks from the 1940s, so they're basically perfect!


Down in the living room, I have pictures from two of my favorite Alan Ladd westerns.  (My whole living room has a western movie theme -- I'm sure that comes as a great shock.)  These are from Branded (1950) and Shane (1953), respectively.  They're hanging right above our TV set.


Of course, the living room also contains my collection of Alan Ladd DVDs and Blu-Rays, but those are scattered all over my movie shelves and I simply ran out of time to collect them all up for a photo.

Over in the kitchen, you'll find my two Alan Ladd mugs.  One, you'll notice, has the same artwork as one of my postcards -- again, it's from RedBubble.  The other has a promo image from This Gun for Hire (1942), and I got it on Etsy ten years ago.  One of the first Alan Ladd-related things I bought!


Finally, in the library, you'll find a couple of movie-tie-in books for two of Alan's movies, Two Years Before the Mast (1946) and The Proud Rebel (1958).   I'd love to have the movie tie-in for The Great Gatsby (1949), but those tend to run like $250 each, so... that's out of my league, heh.  Maybe I'll find a deal on one some day.


This concludes our tour of the random Alan Ladd memorabilia that has collected around my house over the past ten years.  I hope you enjoyed it :-)  And, if not, well, the tickets didn't cost much, anyway...

Wednesday, February 11, 2026

Build Your Own Fairy Tale Game

I've created a game for We Love Fairy Tales Week that allows you to build your own fairy tale based on what you roll with a die (or random number generator) for each question.  


Simply roll a die once for each question, then use that number's answer to build the next part of your fairy tale.  Put all your parts together in the comments, and embellish them a bit if you want to, and we can all enjoy each others' brand-new fairy tales!

Your Role
You are the hero/heroine of a new fairy tale!  Your story begins this way:

Once upon a time, there lived a(n) __________________
1. comely maiden/lad
2. tired mother/father
3. curious chameleon
4. wise-cracking hermit
5. excitable dragon
6. perfectly ordinary cat


The Love Interest

Then you met ________________, and the two of you fell in love.
1. a shy prince/princess
2. a wise centaur
3. a jolly baker
4. a lonely king/queen
5. a mischievous mermaid/merman
6. a vain fairy


Your Problem

One day, you ______________
1. lost your favorite slippers
2. accidentally stole the king's carriage
3. dropped your rent money down a well
4. fell off a horse and broke your foot
5. ate poisonous berries and became deathly ill
6. drank a love potion meant for someone else


The Villain

To make matters worse, there suddenly appeared a ____________ who took credit for your misfortune.
1. disgruntled wizard
2. greedy troll
3. killer bunny
4. vengeful unicorn
5. miserly pirate
6. hungry giant


The Escalation

Before you could stop them, that villain _____________________
1. called you a ninnygrimble
2. bit your ankle
3. stole your shoes
4. ate your lunch
5. turned you into a newt
6. bonked your love interest over the head and tried to drag him/her off to their lair


The Showdown Begins

Immediately, you bravely ______________________
1. reported them to the authorities
2. stuck your fingers in your ears, shut your eyes, and blew a raspberry at them
3. chanted their name three times
4. drew your sword and executed a dazzling array of complicated moves with it
5. bonked them over the head with your quarterstaff
6. kicked them in the knee


The Climax

Almost before you knew what was happening, ________________
1. the villain disappeared in a puff of smoke
2. you were transported to the royal palace
3. the royal guard appeared and rescued you
4. you and your one true love both turned invisible
5. a wolf came out of the forest and ate the villain
6. the villain realized the error of their ways, repented, and asked you to forgive them.


The Aftermath

Once the dust had settled, you ____________________
1. were appointed to the royal court as a reward for your brave deeds
2. opened your own business
3. were declared the new king/queen of the realm
4. joined the circus
5. found a purse full of gold coins
6. built your dream home in the forest


The Ending

At long last, you __________________
1. married your one true love and lived reasonably happily ever after.
2. decided you and your significant other would be better off as friends.
3. set off for a distant land to seek another adventure.
4. married your one true love and lived happily to the end of your days.
5. learned the secret to living a happy life.
6. had seventeen children and tickled each of them once a day.

Now, just string those all together into a story in a comment!  I can't wait to see how your new fairy tale turns out :-D

Monday, February 09, 2026

We Love Fairy Tales Week -- Kickoff and Tag

Once upon a time... we spent a whole week celebrating fairy tales!


I'm so excited that you're joining me for this blog party!  All week long, we'll be reveling in fairy tales and fairy tale retellings.  You can join the party any time by sharing posts on your own blog.  Don't forget to add one or more party buttons too -- you can find all of them in this post.  When you're done, come back here and add a link to your post to this widget so others can find it:


You can also participate by copying the official party tag to your blog and answering the questions there.  Here are the tag questions:

1.  What's your favorite fairy tale?

2.  If you could cast any actors and actresses ever in a movie version of that fairy tale, who would you pick?

3.  Do you have a favorite fairy tale movie?

4.  Do you have a favorite book that retells a fairy tale?

5.  If you got to be in a stage or film production of a classic fairy tale, what fairy tale would you want to be in, and who would you like to play?

6.  Do you like fairy tales by Hans Christian Andersen or the Grimm Brothers best?  Or someone else's?

7.  What more obscure fairy tale do you think more people should know about?


Come back here from time to time this week to see what people are sharing!  I have a giveaway going already, and I'll be sharing a blog game or two in the next few days, too.

Giveaway for We Love Fairy Tales Week

Are you ready?  Behold the prizes for the We Love Fairy Tales Week giveaway!


I have seven prizes for you this year.  Read on to learn more about each prize and then find out how to enter!


Prize One: A Noble Companion gift set!  I made these for a couple of in-person author events in December, and I didn't sell quite all of them, so I'm giving one away to one lucky winner this week!  The gift set includes a paperback copy of my Ugly Duckling retelling, A Noble Companion, plus multiple fun gifts to open as you read.  Each gift is labeled with what page it corresponds to, so you can open them as you read... or open them all at once, if you would rather.  Your choice!  

A Noble Companion is historical-esque, non-magical fantasy with talking animals and dragons living alongside humans in a fairy tale world based on 1800s Spanish California.  It's Christian YA with some mild western violence, no cussing, and a few lightly described kisses.


Prize Two:  a used DVD copy of Jack the Giant Slayer (2013), a fun fantasy adventure starring Nicholas Hoult, Ewan McGregor, and Eleanor Tomlinson.  It's rated PG-13 for "intense scenes of fantasy action violence, some frightening images and brief language."  It has some kissing, quite a bit of fantasy violence, and several cuss words (including the F word once).  I didn't show it to my kids until they were all at least 13.  It's a really fun movie, but definitely not intended for little kids.


Prize Three: four bookmarks (set one) depicting classic fairy tales

Prize Four:  four bookmarks (set two) with a princessy fairy tale theme


Prize Five: five stickers (set one) depicting castles and dragons coming out of books

Prize Six: five stickers (set two) depicting cottage-core fairy tale elements coming out of books

Prize Seven: five stickers (set three) depicting underwater fantasy scenes coming out of books


This giveaway is open worldwide!  It ends at 11:59pm EST on Friday, February 13.  I will have a random number generator pick seven winners that weekend, one for each prize, then alert the winners by email and announce them on my blog.  Winners have one week to reply to my email.  If they do not reply within one week, they forfeit their prize.

How to Enter

The giveaway widget I used to use is not longer operational, so this year, you will enter by leaving comments on this post.  I'll assign a number to each comment at the end of the week and use a random number generator to pick winning numbers.

You must leave a comment on this same post telling me what email address to contact you at if you win.  I have put all comments on "moderation," so those comments will NOT be shared here on my blog.  I will keep them private, and delete them after this giveaway has ended.  I will not use them for any purpose besides contacting winners of this giveaway.  Anyone who does not complete this step will not be eligible for a prize.  

You must leave a comment on this same post telling me what your top three prize choices are!  I do my best to match prizes with winners based on the order the random number generator chooses the winners in.  I cannot guarantee that winners will receive their top choice of prize.  Anyone who does not complete this step will not be eligible for a prize.  You may enter this way only one time.

You may leave a comment with a link to the blog post you contributed to the We Love Fairy Tales Week celebration.  You may enter this way more than once, and each will count as one entry for each blog post you contribute to the party.  Please leave each link in a separate comment.

You may leave a comment telling me you have visited my Instagram profile and scrolled through my page a bit, and tell me something you like about my photos.  You may enter this way only one time.

You may leave a comment telling me you have visited my Goodreads profile and marked at least one of my books as "to read."  You may enter this way only one time.

You may leave a comment telling me you have visited my author website, and tell me which page you found most interesting.  You may enter this way only one time.

You may leave a comment telling me you have signed up for my author newsletter.  New sign-ups and existing subscriptions both count!  You may enter this way only one time.

Each of those will earn you one entry into the giveaway!

If you are posting anonymous comments, please add a name or nickname to them so I know who you are -- and use the same name or nickname for each comment.  Any unsigned, unidentifiable comments will be disqualified.

No purchase necessary.  Void where prohibited.  Must be 18+ or have permission from parent/guardian to provide a mailing address if you win.  I will not share mailing or email addresses with any third party OR use them for any purpose except what is stated in this giveaway post. All prizes were purchased by me for the purpose of this giveaway and will be shipped via USPS.  Once I mail them off, they are out of my hands and I am not responsible for whether or not they reach the winners.


Be sure to visit my kick-off post to find all the cool contributions for We Love Fairy Tales Week, and to leave links for your own!